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Sep 06 2017

Love Is What Is Happening

I’m totally exhausted.

Stachybotrys, the mould biotoxin, has got to me.

I’m looking, searching, clawing desperately for a way to escape the pain of exhaustion, to feel better.

It’s just a fantasy. Without the fantasy I can sit with the pain.

But I don’t want to.

I give up the fight, relax and merge into what is happening.

Perhaps love isn’t in getting what I want, it is in loving what is happening.

 

Written by Mark Kahn · Categorized: Self Esteem DIARY

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  1. Savina says

    September 6, 2017 at 6:38 am

    Not always easy to accept what Byron Katie says ‘To Love What Is’ but I am sure to surrender is the way out.

    Reply
  2. Erica Hesse says

    September 6, 2017 at 7:26 pm

    Fighting reality is always at the losing end. To be in the moment puts everything in balance and opens your eyes to possibilities. Thank you Mark.

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    • Mark Kahn says

      September 9, 2017 at 5:37 am

      And how much time are we on the losing end!

      Reply

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